Why We Practice Hard Love (Church Discipline)

There are at least four reasons we practice church discipline and correction:

  1. The only way to receive the gospel that saves is to receive God’s loving correction about our sin.
  2. Once we are saved and become children of God, He disciplines and corrects us about sin because He does love us.
  3. The body of Christ should correct wayward sinners according to God’s word. Is it loving to let someone we care about hurt themselves and others?
  4. If we love Jesus, then we will obey His commands (John 14:15), and Jesus commands us to discipline and correct unrepentant sin in the body of Christ (Matthew 18:15-18).

Below I further explain how discipline and correction is loving toward unrepentant sin.

Do you enjoy correction – either receiving or giving it? My guess is that you don’t. Yet it is essential to the way that God so loved the world and the way He continues to do what is best for His children.

Think about it. There is no eternal life unless we are confronted about our sin and made to see the way to escape its grip. The gospel is good news about bad news, and the bad news is that we have all earned wrath by our sinful thoughts and acts. But God offers us the only way of deliverance from sin and death through the finished work of Jesus on the cross. That is good news, and it all begins when our sinful rebellion is lovingly confronted for repentance.

Once we are saved from sin and the wrath we deserve, God continues to correct and discipline us. “For those whom the Lord loves He disciplines, and He chastens every son whom He receives.” (Hebrews 12:6; Proverbs 3:11-12) God does not discipline us despite His love, but He disciplines us because He loves us (Revelation 3:19). The correction of the Lord is not in opposition to His lovingkindness. Instead, His confrontational love shows that we truly belong to Him in that He won’t let us run headlong into destructive sin. “If you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons and daughters… He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness.” (Hebrews 12:8, 10). And not only does the Lord’s discipline validate that we are legitimate children of the Father, but its purpose is that we might share in the very attribute that sets Him apart from us, namely, His holiness. “For it is written, ‘Be holy, because I am holy.’” (1 Peter 1:16)

If the perfect Heavenly Father loves us enough to confront and correct our sin, then what is His Church to do when they see a brother or sister run headlong into sin? Is it loving to stand idly by and let someone hurt themselves and others? Would a kind and loving earthly parent allow their young child to smoke cigarettes because the child might accuse them of being controlling and unloving? Would it be considered loving if a friend did not try to stop someone they cared about from doing something that would produce negative consequences for the rest of their life?

Real love demands that we do what is best for others and carefully confront and correct sin. This kind of love is hard, but it is biblical and good. We know it is good because God is good and He does the same for us.

In Matthew 18:15-18, Jesus commands us to confront sin. Remember that the Eagle Heights purpose statement is: “To glorify God together by trusting Jesus and obeying all that He commands.” (Matthew 28:20) If we are to obey Jesus and glorify God, then we must go and show our brother his sin. If he does not repent, then we must take one or two more to confront the sin. If he still doesn’t repent, then we must tell it to our local Church so they can pray and plead for him to repent. If he even refuses to listen to the Church, then Jesus commands us to remove Him from church membership because he will not listen to God’s Word.

Our commitment to obeying Jesus through church discipline does not mean that we confront every single sin this way. We believe there are at least three criteria that must be met for us to pursue the full scope of Matthew 18 church discipline. First, sin must be outward. It needs to be the kind of sin that we can see and hear. We cannot biblically judge the motives of a person’s heart, but we can decide what is visibly evident. Second, sin must be significant. Of course, all sin is deadly serious, but what we mean by significant is that the sin makes it hard for the Church to continue to believe that the person is truly a new creation in Christ because they are blatantly sinning in a way that reminds us of the way the world lives. It’s one thing to make a mistake, and it is another to do something over and over again without any intention to repent. Third, if there is no repentance, concerning the outward and serious sin, then we have to pursue hard love and church discipline. The goal is not to get people, but get them to change their mind and actions for their own good. If they do not repent, then the Church must act according to the command of Jesus in Matthew 18:15-18.

The best way to do church discipline is to do it informally; in hundreds of little conversations in which we gently check on each other and carefully confront sin so that it does not become outward, serious, and unchecked. We don’t want to create a critical, witch hunt culture in our Church, but in the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ, we must not turn a blind eye to that which would make us no different than the watching world. God has called us to be holy, and the only way to do that is to be saved by the blood of Christ, and then to progressively weed out sin through the work of the Holy Spirit among God’s people. It’s the loving thing to do when it is done biblically.

Will you join us in loving others even when it is hard? A few years back, we did a five-week sermon series on this topic, and we know you may have many questions about it. You can listen to the Hard Love sermons on our website: www.eagleheights.com. We also have several resources that we are glad to give to you for studying the biblical teaching of church discipline. We want you to be fully informed about what the Bible teaches so that if the time comes, we are unified in obeying Jesus.

May God’s Holy Spirit give us conviction and strength to obey all that Jesus commands, even when it is hard.

Defining God’s Sovereignty

What does it mean that God is sovereign? Here is a smattering of definitions from theologians and pastors.

  • Wayne Grudem – Sovereignty is God’s exercise of power over creation.
  • John Frame – Sovereignty means God can do everything God can do.
  • John Piper – God is powerful and authoritative so that he can override all other powers and authorities. Therefore, nothing can thwart God’s purposes.
  • J. Hampton Keathley, III – God’s sovereignty means that He is the supreme ruler who immanently and personally rules over all the affairs of the universe.
  • Bruce Waltke – God’s sovereign supremacy is God’s freedom to enact His will.
  • AW Tozer – God’s ability to rule His entire creation.
  • Here is my own definition from reading the holy scriptures and considering the wisdom of the aforementioned men: “God’s sovereignty is His right and ability to do what He wants, when He wants, so that all His purposes succeed.”

Gathering Again on June 7th – What You Need to Know

I am sincerely looking forward to seeing everyone again – from a distance of about six feet.

As we prepare to gather again on Sunday, June 7th, it is very important that we remember two central truths. First, the reason we gather is to hear and remember the gospel of Jesus Christ, so that we love and glorify God together (Matthew 22:37-38). Second, we gather to build up the body of Christ by serving and loving one another (Matthew 22:39; Ephesians 4:11-16). As we think through what it will look like for us to gather again on Sunday, June 7th, let’s keep these biblical realities at the forefront of our hearts and minds. In doing so, it will guard us against self-centeredness and consumerism.

I submit this gentle and loving reminder because I know there are a variety of opinions and concerns about the COVID experience over the last two months. Some in our faith family likely think this whole situation is overblown and out of control. Others are truly concerned or fearful of getting sick. Whatever your opinion or conviction may be, please remember why we gather to worship. Remember also that Christ did not prioritize Himself, but served by becoming a ransom for many. Therefore, following the example of Christ, we should seek first to please our neighbor (Mark 10:45; Romans 15:1-3). Please, brothers and sisters, let’s be humble and kind toward one another. Let us glorify God’s together by doing what is best for one another so that the world will know we are His disciples (John 13:34-35).


  • Two worship gatherings (9 and 10:45 am). Due to limited seating (170 per service), you must reserve a seat. You can sign up on Monday, June 1st.
  • If you are coming to the 10:45 gathering, please don’t show up until 10:30 to allow for us to transition and sanitize between gatherings
  • No childcare for now
  • Shorter service times to accommodate families with children
  • No coffee, Panera, greeting time, passing the offering plate, hand-shaking, hugs
  • Masks are encouraged in wayfinding and common areas. We will have some available
  • Seating is distanced at six and 13 foot intervals
  • Please stay home if you are sick or have symptoms
  • Areas will be sanitized between worship gatherings

More plan details are given below.


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  • We will have two worship gatherings. The first will begin at 9 am and the second will begin at 10:45 am. Having two worship gatherings will allow us to provide seating that allows social distancing. We have tried to create forward-facing spaces of 13 feet.
  • Because of our social distance seating setup, we will limit each worship gathering to 170 people. All members will be asked to reserve a seat via our website: www.eagleheights.com
  • Reservations can be made beginning Monday, June 1st
  • For now, we will continue to provide an online streaming option. It will likely be live at 10:45 am.
  • We will shorten our worship gathering to approximately an hour. This will help us better accommodate those who have children, and it will also allow us to sanitize the building between worship gatherings.
  • Initially, we will not provide childcare. At some point in the near future, we may have childcare for very young children.
  • We will have an area in the lobby for parents to watch the service if they become concerned that their child is becoming a distraction.
  • We will have plenty of hand sanitizer.
  • We will have masks available. If you have a mask, we ask that you bring it, but we will have a limited supply for those who do not have a mask and wish to wear one.
  • Our greeters will be wearing masks and gloves, and they will be the only ones opening the doors.
  • For now, we will not be serving coffee or Panera Pastries.
  • For now, we will not be passing the offering plate. Please use online giving or place your giving in the wooden box in the back.
  • For now, we will not be handing out information guides/bulletins.
  • For now, we will not have a formal greeting time.
  • We will be sanitizing the building between worship gatherings.
  • For now, Core Groups have been asked not to meet in the building on Sunday. We want Core Groups to meet, but not in the building. They may meet at the church property outside during one of the two worship gatherings, but we ask they not meet in the building for now.


 If you have a pre-existing condition, please stay home.

  • If you are sick or exhibit any kind of symptom that is associated with COVID-19, please stay home. Remember, we will continue to provide a streaming option at 10:45 via Facebook.
  • DON’T JUST SHOW UP, PLEASE SIGN UP. It is very important that you reserve a seat for yourself and your family/friends via our website: www.eagleheights.com We have a limited number of seats. If a worship gathering fills up, then you may need to attend the other worship gathering.
  • If you attend the 10:45 am worship gathering, please don’t enter the building until 10:30.
  • If you attend the 9 am worship gathering, please don’t linger in the building. If you want to visit, please visit outside so that we can honor social distancing during the transition between gatherings, and so we can sanitize the building.
  • Please do not move the seating arrangements in the worship center.
  • Please sit with your family or those you have been living with (apartments, dorms, Greek houses, etc.).
  • We are asking that only senior adults, and those who need handicap access, enter through the east door. We are trying to protect our most vulnerable. Help us do that.
  • We are requesting that people avoid hugging and handshakes and that they practice social distancing. We are asking that you be respectful of others.
  • Masks are encouraged in wayfinding and common spaces.
  • If you need to leave the worship gathering for any reason while it is in progress, please use the SE door. When you reenter, please use the main doors in the back in the worship center. This will allow us to maintain social distancing as people come and go.
  • If you believe your children need to leave the room, please exit using the SE door. They can be taken to the designated area in the commons area/lobby.
  • If you see something that concerns you, please gently and lovingly approach one of our staff or elders and communicate with us. We are here to help.
  • Place your giving in the slot in the wooden box in the back of the worship gathering area. Also, remember that you can give online at www.eagleheights.com/give

We don’t know how long we will practice these precautions, but please help us serve one another. If you see someone not abiding by these recommendations, please be patient and forgiving. Some will not have read this or watched one of our video updates. Others may be so excited that they forget the circumstances, and revert back to what was normal. It is hard to form new habits and to change the way we act.

May God use this time to teach us how to treat others as more important than ourselves. May God use this time to help us have the servant, other-centered attitude of Christ Jesus. May God use this to strengthen His church and wean us off consumerism. May God gives us spiritual eyes to see the good that can come from this, for God’s great glory and our greatest joy.

We Have a Date for Gathering Again – Questions and Plans

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If you haven’t already, will you PLEASE fill out this survey?

This survey will help us make strategic decisions about gathering again. It is very, very important that each family fill one of these out: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/3968N7M If you are not a member, or don’t plan on attending as a guest, please do not do this survey. Thank you.

When will we gather again? 

The Elders met on Saturday and with complete unity agreed that we would target Sunday, June 7th to gather again in our building. Please understand that the COVID-19 situation is a fluid one and plans could change. But as of now, we will target Sunday, June 7th.

What about Core Groups?

Practicing proper social distancing, we want each Core Group to consider meeting face-to-face as soon as possible. However, we are asking Core Groups to meet in homes for the foreseeable future. Even once we begin gathering again on June 7th at the church building, we are still going to ask Core Groups to meet in homes or outside on the church property. We will have more details and suggestions as we get closer to June 7th.

What about other groups and ministries?

We are asking all other groups and ministries to refrain from using the building until we see how things progress over the summer. Each ministry and group can reach out to Brent or Ryan to discuss when they can begin using the building once we get to June the 7th.

Why are the Elders so protective of the building?

We want to make sure we are being as consistent as we can be with all groups. Also, we want to minimize the amount of space we have to sanitize to comply with local policies and standards.

What about the details for gathering again?

It has occurred to me that shutting everything down was the easy part. Getting things up and running again is going to be the bigger logistical challenge. It is going to require a lot of wisdom and planning. It is going to require cooperation and change. We can do it, but we will need your patience and help. One of the reasons we chose June 7th is so that we could make sure we had adequate time to gather information, see how things are going with the spread of the virus, and to plan adequately. Please pray for us. We will be sharing more and more details and plans as we get close to June 7th.

Why are other churches already meeting but Eagle Heights is waiting until June 7th?  

Each local body must do what is best for their particular situation, according to their own conscience. Hear me loud and clear; we want to gather. I am eager to gather again and worship the Lord Jesus Christ with you all. But God has given us the opportunity not to rush back. We are not fearful, but we do want to be cautiously wise. Part of the reason we are waiting is that we hope to be clear of some of the local and state policies that would distract us from worshiping together, even though they are for our protection. We have been absent from one another for two months; surely three more Sundays a part can be overcome. May our absence from one another make our hearts grow founder for the gathering of God’s people in Jesus Christ. May this time serve to show us the gift we have every Sunday as we gather to remember and worship the crucified and risen Lord.

Again, we will roll out more details as June 7th gets closer. But in the meantime, please let us know your concerns and questions. They can only help us as we plan to gather again.


When Will Eagle Heights Resume Gathering? Our Short-Term Plan

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Do you remember how this all began? Do you remember how COVID-19 forced us into a whole new world that included suspending our church’s face-to-face meetings? On Wednesday, March 11th, the first domino fell when the Oklahoma City Thunder game with the Utah Jazz was canceled moments before tip-off. Just a few days later, on Friday the 13th, we made the decision to cancel our Sunday morning worship gathering and stream our Sunday worship content online. In a matter of days, we made the decision to cancel all our in-person gatherings and continue to try to be the church using the Internet and technology. The change was abrupt. By necessity, it was a sudden decision that changed the way we function as a local church.

Seven Sundays later, we are hopeful that we will soon be able to gather again, just as local churches have done for nearly 2,000 years. Unfortunately, gathering again won’t happen as suddenly as the shutdown did. Church life as we knew it before COVID-19 is not going to go back to normal on May 3rd, the first Sunday churches can meet again under phase 1 of Governor Stitt’s Open Up and Recover Safely (OURS) plan

So before I disclose the details of what the Elders have discussed and decided, I ask the following of all our members. First, please recognize that getting back to normal will be a process. It might be a long process, as in months, not weeks. Second, please understand that the situation is fluid and can change quickly. According to Governor Stitt’s plan, if restrictions are to continue to loosen so that we can graduate to the next phase (phase 2), then hospital and incident rates must remain manageable for 14 days. Third, keep in mind that the situation is not simple. We have to think about a number of concerns that will impact the safety of people we care about and love. Please be patient and considerate of one another. Finally, pray for wisdom and guidance as we navigate this together.

Without further ado, here is the short-term plan the Elders unanimously endorsed on Sunday afternoon.

  • We will not be meeting at the church building during phase 1, which includes both Sunday, May 3rd, and Sunday, May 10th. We will continue to stream our worship content via Facebook during that time. There are several reasons we chose not to meet on those Sundays. First, we could not have childcare per the governor’s policy. Second, people 65 years and older, and people with pre-existing conditions would be asked not to come. Third, we would have to honor social distancing requirements as it relates to seating. There are other reasons that we chose to wait, but the bottom line is this: we all concluded that phase 1 would make worshiping together very difficult.
  • We hope that 5Groups, and one-to-one meetings, will start to happen again. These meetings can happen in coffee shops, restaurants,  and homes.
  • The Elders are recommending that larger groups, like Core Groups, continue to use zoom, and other online platforms, to maintain social distancing through phase 1.
  • We are asking that all groups refrain from using the building in phase 1. We are doing this in part to make sure we are consistent with who can use the building and who can’t.
  • The Elders will meet again on Saturday, May 9th to reassess the situation, and decide what adjustments to make going forward as we enter into phase 2. Keep in mind, that progressing on to each phase is dependent on whether or not hospital and incident rates remain manageable during each phase.

We recognize that other churches will have different plans. Some will gather on the 3rd and some won’t gather again for months. One thing we have learned as we have met with other pastors and church leaders from across the state is that there is no consensus plan on how churches will adjust to opening up again. Every congregation and context is different. The one thing we have been told over and over again is that reopening is a process, not a one-time decision. Please be patient with us as we navigate this unique time.

As always, please let us know if you have any questions or concerns. The Elders are always glad to listen.



7 Viewing Suggestions for Social Distancing Families

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Many of us have extra time on our hands these days as we shelter in place, and I hope that each of us will make sure not to binge-watch our lives away. The temptation is real. The Bible exhorts us to make the most of the time, for the days are full of evil (Eph. 5:16). We are told to put on the full armor of God through Bible reading and prayer (Ephesians 6:10-2) so that we will be ready to speak with confidence the gospel of Jesus Christ. We may want to watch our quarantine days away, but I hope we seek first His kingdom and righteousness (Matthew 6:33).

Having made this obvious but necessary qualification, I want to suggest several forgotten or under-the-radar family-oriented options for your viewing pleasure.

  • Lost in Space on Netflix – This is a modernized version of the 1960s sci-fi show. It has impressive special effects, and it is very family-friendly as far as language, sexuality, and violence. If you like sci-fi and adventure, then this worth the watch. Season one is a little slow in the beginning, and the second season is quite a bit better than the first. There is a third season coming out in 2021.
  • The Pilgrim’s Progress – Revelation Media has created and released an entertaining and gripping version of John Bunyan’s classic. Bunyan’s book is second only to the Bible in popularity, using allegory to present the gospel message and the journey of a disciple’s life. We watched it with our 8-year-old and it produced very good conversations about spiritual realities. The portrayal of characters can be a bit frightening to smaller children. Click on this link and you can watch for free: https://www.revelationmedia.com/watchpilgrims/RM11280/
  • That Thing You Do – Tom Hanks and Liv Tyler star in a very clean and entertaining story of a one-hit-wonder band in the 1960s. It reminds us that fame and human applause is fleeting. On the entertainment side, it has quickly become a favorite of my oldest son.
  • Hoosiers – The NBA is on hold indefinitely and the NCAA tournament was canceled, so where are you going to get your basketball fix? Gene Hackman stars in an underdog movie that is based on a true story of rural, Indiana High School Team. If you have a son or daughter that only likes to shoot or do the things that get the glory, then this is a great story that reminds us that fundamentals and discipline are critical to success. That is what I tried to tell my sons, anyway.
  • Greater; The Brandon Bulsworth Story (Netflix) – I don’t like the Arkansas Razorbacks but I really like this movie. This film tells the story of a small-town Arkansas football player with a difficult home-life, who dreamed of playing for the Razorbacks. Overcoming a number of obstacles, including college teammates who belittle his faith in Jesus, he not only makes the team as a walk-on, but he excels and eventually gets drafted by the Indianapolis Colts. While the football side is a great story, his greatest impact is the legacy of his faith in Jesus Christ.
  • A Hidden Life – Based on a true story of an Austrian peasant farmer who refused to declare loyalty to Hitler during WWII. It portrays unwavering faith that keeps him loyal to his convictions, his wife, and his children as he faces the threat of execution. This movie is almost three hours long and is rated PG-13. It comes highly recommended as a film that has flown under the pop-culture radar. Trailer: https://youtu.be/qJXmdY4lVR0
  • Free Solo – This a documentary about Alex Honnold and his journey to be the first to solo climb Yosemite’s El Capitan. It is PG-13 for strong language.

Do you have any suggestions the provoke the imagination and teach good life-lessons? I would like to see your suggestions.

How Our Church Has Encouraged Me In This Pandemic

Some say we are in the midst of an unprecedented crisis. For many, the crisis is real. There has been a loss of employment. There has been isolation and loneliness. There has been illness and death. There is uncertainty. There is fear.

But there are also good things happening. There is service happening. There is courage. There is giving. There is love. There is sacrifice. There are many reasons for encouragement. I want to encourage you by sharing some acts and attitudes that have encouraged me.

  • I was exchanging texts with a church member today who was checking on me, and I asked him if his family had contacted those below and above him in the membership directory. He said they had, but they were going to start contacting more. His initiative to do more than asked edified me.
  • I was speaking with some of our senior adults by phone, and a sister told me that they are not fearful of what might happen. She said they go to bed every night knowing that God is in control, and the most important thing in life is taken care of in Christ Jesus. She rhetorically asked, “Why should we fear?”
  • Our children’s director from church called and spoke to our daughter this morning. She didn’t have to do that, but listening more than she was able to talk, she took the time to care about a 7-year-old and her 7-year-old concerns. She also asked her about her favorite Bible verse. During the conversation, I heard out daughter say, “I really want to be able to go to Wednesday Night and Sunday Church again.” I thank God that an adult took time to care about a child and I was encouraged my daughter likes to gather with our local church.
  • I have been encouraged by several who have offered to serve others, and give money and food to those who are in need.
  • Our staff has been eager to adjust to the circumstances, taking on new responsibilities to serve our faith family. They have excelled at thinking of ways they can be innovative.

There are other examples that I have seen in the past several weeks that escape me now, and God knows them all.

How have you been encouraged by others? What are you doing to be an encouragement to others during these trying, uncertain, and even fearful times?

Pray for wisdom and strength to be an encouragement to someone in Christ. A crisis is an opportunity to make a difference and encourage someone who is in need.

Eagle Heights Coronavirus Ministry Plan

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Dear Faith Family,

I hope you will read this carefully and then determine to be the body of Christ, by building one another up in love.

You have heard it said, “Never waste a good crisis.” And I tell you there is wisdom to be gleaned from that statement. Let me explain. For most of us, this present situation is not one we would choose. It is inconvenient. It has created uncertainty. It has produced fear and anxiety. It all seems surreal. But this is an opportunity for us to see this disruptive moment as something that an all-powerful God can use for good. Here is what we are doing to trust and obey Jesus together as a local church.

  • WE ARE ASKING EVERY EAGLE HEIGHTS MEMBER TO HELP US LOVE AND SERVE ONE ANOTHER – Each of you will receive an updated member’s directory by email. If you don’t receive one, please email Mindy at mhardy@eagleheights.com and request one. When you receive the membership directory, please contact the person above you and below you in the directory. Try calling first. If that does not work, then please text or email. When you call or text, introduce yourself and explain that you are a member of Eagle Heights Baptist Church and that you are calling to see how they are doing. Then check on them by asking these questions: 1) Ask them how you can pray for them. 2) Ask them what they are currently reading in their Bible. 3) Ask them if there is a way that you can practically serve them. Finally, ask them if they have received the email and the church directory. If they have, then encourage them to do the same for the person below them in the directory. We understand that you may already be doing this for people in your Core Group, 5Group, or CR Group, but this “crisis” is a God-given opportunity for us to build relationships and care for people beyond our groups that already exist. Also, our First Impressions Coordinator, Wendy Ringer, along with others, will be contacting some of you to make sure that we are all doing our part. If you don’t hear from someone by phone, text or email, please let us know. For the good of this body and the glory of Christ, please do your part and reach out to one another. Please try to do this by Saturday of every week until further notice.
  • SERVING AND CARING FOR OUR SENIOR ADULTS AND SHUT-INS – Please be aware that our deacons are already working hard at reaching out to our senior adults and shut-ins. If you desire to help the deacons or want to contribute to the benevolence fund, please contact Mindy at mhardy@eagleheights.com and she will put you in contact with the deacons.
  • DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO NEEDS HELP? – If you need help or know someone that does, please contact help@eagleheights.com. This is first and foremost for church members. We will do what we can to help everyone, but just like every other organization, we have limited resources.
  • SMALL GROUP RESOURCES FOR ONLINE MEETINGS – To honor our local government leaders and to love our neighbors, we are suggesting that groups use online platforms like Zoom to meet. We know, it’s not what is best; it’s not how we want to get together. But look at the bright side. We are fortunate that we live in a time in which we have access to such mediums and platforms. Whatever you do, make sure your groups are contacting everyone in your group at least once a week to check on each other and pray. Note: Even if you are doing this as a group, we still want everyone to use the Eagle Heights Membership Directory to check on the whole body of Eagle Heights. Here is a link to Zoom: https://zoom.us/ Here is a very brief video tutorial for church groups who want to use zoom: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKQq96TiGpg&t=&fbclid=IwAR3XsAQxUj9il3TfpjBhrnn-j49EtA7Vyy58QZVuyUAGMhQjy3bU97NYx0g Here is a helpful article on how to lead a small group online: https://factsandtrends.net/2020/03/19/how-to-host-a-small-group-online/
  • WEDNESDAY NIGHT LIVE – Beginning this Wednesday, Parker will lead a 15-minute devotional at 6:30 pm. We will be using our Eagle Heights Facebook Page to stream this content and we hope that you will take advantage of this to implement and practice family worship. While this is targeted for families and youth, we encourage everyone to participate.
  • GIVING TO EAGLE HEIGHTS MINISTRY AND MISSIONS – There are several options for supporting the ministry of Eagle Heights and Missions. 1) You can mail a check to 2617 N. Jardot Rd. 74075 2) You can use online giving: https://eagleheights.com/give 3) Text Giving: If you want to give to the “general ministry fund”, then text “Give” and the amount you want to give to this number: 405.353.9939. If you want to give to the “missions fund”, then you can type “Missions” followed by the amount you want to give to the same number: 405.353.9939.
  • ONLINE MEETINGS WITH ELDERS? – The Elders are brainstorming the possibility of designating some times that members can join them for a short time of devotion and prayer using a platform like Zoom. This is still in the works, and we will let you know if this hypothetical plan becomes an option.
  • PRAY FOR THE WEEKLY ELDER MEETING – Please pray for the Elders as they meet on Thursday Nights to discuss how to lead and care for our faith family during this time.

A church is a group of people who are committed to following Christ and serving one another in love. Will you join us? Will you be a part of what we are supposed to be and do? Let’s be the church! Let’s be the gospel made visible, demonstrated by our love for one another. Then the world will know that we are disciples of Jesus (John 13:34-35).

Let us know if you have any questions or concerns.

For God’s Glory Together – Pastor Brent

Eagle Heights Coronavirus Update


Greetings Brothers and Sisters:

These are unprecedented times. The Coronavirus (COVID-19) has created a lot of interruption and uncertainty, and yes, even fear. But God’s word has some very certain things to say to us in an uncertain and often turbulent, fear-producing world. God’s word repeatedly tells us not to fear or to be afraid (Joshua 1:9; Psalm 23:4; Isaiah 41:10; Matthew 6:34; John 14:1, 27; 2 Timothy 1:7; Etc.). It’s times like these that we find out who or what we really trust and worship.

God’s word also commands us to gather regularly for worship with our local church (Hebrews 10:19-25). To forsake the local church without a substantial reason (this may soon be one of those substantial reasons) is to forsake the word of God and Jesus, who is the head of the church body. So despite the uncertainty and concerns over the Coronavirus, we will continue to meet regularly unless we must suspend meeting together for a time. We will continue to monitor the situation closely and make decisions as things develop.

So we intend to continue to meet for the foreseeable future, but we also want to be wise. We don’t want to needlessly endanger people by not taking this virus seriously. Some among us may be more susceptible to the impacts of this virus, like our senior adults. We want to do what is best for everyone.

Here are some ways you can love others as we plan to continue gathering together:

  • Know the symptoms. They are similar to other upper respiratory infections with symptoms like runny nose, sore throat, coughing, and sometimes a fever.
  • If you have the symptoms, please stay home. We would ask you to do the same thing if you had the flu or strep or a cold. The church gathering is a time of sharing life, but please make every effort not to share any sickness.
  • Lather your hands with sanitizer and wash your hands a lot. We have purchased extra hand sanitizer for the church building, and we have plenty of soap, so please use it. If you are serving in any capacity, please wash your hands when you get to the building.
  • We will suspend the greeting time. For the foreseeable future, we will not have the greeting time to prevent opportunities to inadvertently pass on infections.
  • No holy kisses or holy handshakes, please. Let’s continue to greet each other with smiles and maybe an elbow tap, but let’s avoid handshakes for a while. Even if there are no reported cases of COVID-19 in Stillwater for the time being, this is good practice for when/if it impacts our city.
  • If you can’t attend or you are concerned about attending, please do these things. 1) Let us know so we can see if there is some way to assist you. 2) Listen or watch the sermons online: https://eagleheights.com/resources/sermons-podcasts  3) You can give online: https://eagleheights.com/give 4) Don’t fall out of the spiritual discipline and habit of church attendance.
  • We also want you to know that we sanitize the children’s areas after each Sunday. We were doing this long before the Coronavirus was on our radar. Again, please don’t bring your children if they exhibit any of the symptoms mentioned above.

We are doing all we can and will continue to do so as we receive information. God is in control, and that is where our hope should ultimately be grounded. But we will also press forward and do what we can to help slow the spread of this virus. We want to avoid causing more angst for an anxious world. This is an opportunity for Christians to trust God and stand out. But we also want to be cautious and wise so we don’t contribute to the problem.

Let us know if you have any questions or helpful advice.

For God’s Glory Together,


Pastor Brent

Honoring Years and Years of Faithful Service

This was how we honored so many at our annual Thanksgiving meal on November 24, 2019.

Opening remarks and reading of Psalm 116:12-19

  • First, notice that the Psalmist emphasizes calling upon the name of the Lord (13, 17) in worship (13-14) and thanksgiving (17)
  • Second, notice that he does so in the presence of all God’s people (14 and 18).
    • So, I want to thank God for our salvation in Jesus.
    • But I want to thank God for you all, and I want you to be thankful for each other and what it means to be a church that serves and loves each other for God’s glory through Jesus Christ.


  • We may have forgotten someone. If we have, please let us know.
  • We did not include AWANA in this because Jill already does a good job of recognizing leaders for years served.
  • These mentioned are those who have served continuously (making it easier to count).
  • If you used to serve, but don’t anymore, we appreciate you. God knows. I trust you will appreciate that others are being honored for their continued faithfulness to build up this local body.


  • Charlie Cooksey – from the beginning for 22 years +


  • 5 Years – Ben Burnsed
  • 15 Years – Charles Cox


  • 5 Years – Angie Delahoussaye *, Desiree Burnsed *, Elizabeth Ziegler, Teresa Moss
  • 7 Years
    • Allison Smith
  • 8 Years
    • Rhondalyn Richardson, Dawn Schrock
  • 9 Years
    • Julie Ray
    • Lauren Mills *
    • Amanda Rasmussen
    • Jessica and Jerod Cottom *
  • 10 Years
    • Stephanie Ochsner *, Ron Delahoussaye *
  • 13 Years
    • Suzanne Moore, Ben and Erika Brown
  • 14 Years
    • Carla Nelson
    • Christy Shuman *
    • Sarah Jones
    • Lacey Prentice
  • 18 Years
    • Jadi and Mike Gibbs *
  • 22 Years and still going
    • Bobbie and Lonnie Daugherty, Micki Rogers

* denotes they serve every Sunday


  • 5 Years – Lonnie Daugherty and Jon Cunningham
  • 8 Years – Kevin Moore
  • 10 Years plus – Kevin and Brenda Zacharias and The Rogers


  • 5 Years – Kevin Moore and Ryan Smith
  • 7 Years – Tyson Ochsner and Kevin Zacharias
  • 10 Years – Russ Ingram


  • Cayton Jones and Ron Delahoussaye – 7 years
  • Curtis Kinsey – 9 years
  • David Hatfield – 14 years (David was a part of the group of first deacons)


  • Greg Webb – 22 Years and still going


  • 5 + Years – Dan Newman, Carla Nelson, Mark Schrock, Curtis and Nancy Kinsey, Julie Ray, Kayley Mills, Chris Timmons


  • The Nelson Family – 7 years
  • Charles Cox and Scott Farrington – 12 years


  • 8 Years – Sarah Jones
  • 10 Years + – Micki Rogers and Lonnie Daugherty


  • 5 Years
    • Ben Burnsed, Colby Bennett, Dana Duell
  • 10 Years
    • Ben Ehrlich, Toby Angell
  • 15 Years
    • Karen Lemley, Julie Farrington, Veronica Heisler


  • 7 Years – Bruce and Janet Barringer


  • 8 Years – Tonya Ingram


  • 6+ Years – Dawn Schrock
  • 9 Years – Dana Baker and Bobby Luttrell


  • Tammy Ramsey – 10 years
  • Mindy Hardy – 15 years
  • Ryan Smith – 15 years

Again, I hope we did not forget anyone, but I suspect we did. And I am sure there are many who have served our faith family in untold ways; by giving regularly, serving in temporary positions, etc. As I said before, God knows. But it is always good for us to honor each other in Christ. I am glad there are so many we can honor in our faith family.